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 actually, why dont i say it. ive seen some tiktoks ppl make where they said, like if u are a put together woman @ work, u have to be a little bit of a people pleaser, bc there are ppl that will put u under extra scrutiny, bc ure doing better than them. it's like a whole game, u have to be "fake nice" to ppl at work that are, honestly, losers outside of work. its a stupid game. i wasn't going to be "fake nice" to paul wang, in fact, i reported him multiple times to penn's hr hahahaha idc, and im not around ppl like that anymore at work, i think that's what they wanted me to do, essentially comply to their bullsht and be nice to them, and i wasnt hahahahahahaa
 
-biggest pet peeve about anyone (esp @ work): a "foodie" that's not a "real" hobby, like go read eric schlosser ure just some sheep hahahahahaa and this hobby of being a "foodie" like ure replaced by AI and/or GLP hahaha giving restaurant recs in nyc rotfl like who cares.
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+biggest pet peeve about anyone (esp @ work): a "foodie" that's not a "real" hobby, like go read eric schlosser ure just some sheep hahahahahaa and this hobby of being a "foodie" like ure replaced by AI and/or GLP hahaha giving restaurant recs in nyc rotfl like who cares.
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+yeah here's a REAL hobby: 1. get a fking library card 2. ummm go to ur public library (free & open to anyone), walk around and pick out some books about skills u should learn/know about even something simple as writing better. i do this, i've done this since middle school, hs, undergrad etc. video games/reddit (granted there are useful subreddits, but with caution)/being a foodie doesnt make u a competitive or interesting/cultured person -- and now u're left behind and will become resentful of others. ok. i have things to do.
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+thats my new-ish life rule, i.e. "this person is a loser outside of work, be fake nice to them & watch out for them." and i'd like to add "they should not know anything about you outside of work"
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